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When anger hurts : quieting the storm within

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog113391
McKay, Matthew, Rogers, Peter D, McKay, Judith. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc. , 1989.
Audience
Professional
Call Number
BF575 A5 M153 1989
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
McKay, Matthew
Rogers, Peter D
McKay, Judith
Editor
Johnson, Kirk
Place of Publication
Oakland, CA
Publisher
New Harbinger Publications, Inc.
Publication Date
1989
Physical Description
320 p. ; 22 cm.
Subjects
Anger
Interpersonal Relations
Emotions
Communication
ISBN
0934986762
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Professional
Location
Kelowna Library
Call Number
BF575 A5 M153 1989

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency KEL Library Available
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Crucial conversations : tools for talking when stakes are high

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog21449
Patterson, Kerry. New York, NY: McGraw-Hill , 2012. updated 2nd ed.
Audience
Professional
Patient or Public
Call Number
BF637 C45 C955 2012
Availability
6 copies, 6 available
Author
Patterson, Kerry
Edition
updated 2nd ed.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
McGraw-Hill
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
xviii, 244 p. ; 23 cm.
Subjects
Interpersonal Relations
Communication
Negotiating
Emotions
Persuasive Communication
Notes
CN Library copy is housed in the UHNBC Library.
ISBN
9780071771320
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Professional
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Kelowna Library
Surrey Library
Victoria Library
Abbotsford Library
CN Library
Call Number
BF637 C45 C955 2012

Copies

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Crucial conversations : tools for talking when stakes are high

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog21450
Patterson, Kerry. Solon, OH: Findaway World, LLC , 2013. updated 2nd ed.
Audience
Professional
Call Number
BF637 C45 C955 2013 v.1-4
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Author
Patterson, Kerry
Edition
updated 2nd ed.
Place of Publication
Solon, OH
Publisher
Findaway World, LLC
Publication Date
2013
Physical Description
4 audio discs (3 hr., 52 min.) : digital, CD audio ; 4 3/4 in.
Subjects
Interpersonal Relations
Communication
Negotiating
Emotions
Persuasive Communication
ISBN
9781469266824
Language
English
Material Type
Audio
CD
Audience
Professional
Location
Vancouver Library AV Room
Call Number
BF637 C45 C955 2013 v.1-4

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VAN Library AV Room Available
c.2 BC Cancer Agency VAN Library AV Room Available
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PowerPhrases! : the perfect words to say it right and get the results you want

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog15877
Runion, Meryl. Cascade, CO: Power Potentials Publishing , c2005. expanded ed.
Audience
Professional
Call Number
BF637 C45 R943 2005
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Alternate Title
Power phrases
Author
Runion, Meryl
Edition
expanded ed.
Place of Publication
Cascade, CO
Publisher
Power Potentials Publishing
Publication Date
c2005
Physical Description
320 p. ; 23 cm. + 1 CD-ROM
Subjects
Interpersonal Relations
Communication
Verbal Behavior
Workplace
Negotiating
Personnel Management
Persuasive Communication
ISBN
9780971443792
0971443793
Language
English
Material Type
Book
CD
Audience
Professional
Location
Vancouver Library
Victoria Library
Call Number
BF637 C45 R943 2005

Copies

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There is no good card for this : what to say and do when life is scary, awful, and unfair to people you love

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog123379
Crowe, Kelsey, McDowell, Emily. New York, NY: HarperOne , 2017.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
BF637 S4 C769 2017
Availability
3 copies, 3 available
When someone you know is hurting, you want to let her know that you care. But many people don't know what words to use--or are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. This guide from empathy expert Dr. Kelsey Crowe and greeting card maverick Emily McDowell blends ... actionable advice with the n…
Author
Crowe, Kelsey
McDowell, Emily
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
HarperOne
Publication Date
2017
Physical Description
260 p. : ill. ; 22 cm
Subjects
Empathy
Compassion
Bereavement
Loss
Interpersonal Communication
Popular Work
Abstract
When someone you know is hurting, you want to let her know that you care. But many people don't know what words to use--or are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. This guide from empathy expert Dr. Kelsey Crowe and greeting card maverick Emily McDowell blends ... actionable advice with the no-nonsense humor and the signature illustration style of McDowell's Empathy Cards, to help you feel confident in connecting with anyone experiencing grief, loss, illness, or any other difficult situation -- Provided by publisher.
Notes
This resource was purchased with a donation from the Order of the Eastern Star.
ISBN
9780062469991
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
BF637 S4 C769 2017

Copies

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Nonviolent communication : a language of life

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog120504
Rosenberg, Marshall B. Encinitas, CA.: Puddle Dancer Press , 2015. 3rd ed.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM172 R813 2015
Availability
5 copies, 5 available
Author
Rosenberg, Marshall B
Edition
3rd ed.
Place of Publication
Encinitas, CA.
Publisher
Puddle Dancer Press
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
xix, 244 p. ; 23 cm.
Subjects
Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Empathy
Conflict (Psychology)
Negotiating
Verbal Behavior
Popular Work
Notes
Surrey CIC keep 2022 (F0002447)
Surrey CIC keep 2022 PFC (F0002451)
ISBN
9781892005281
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Surrey Cancer Info Ctr
Vancouver Library
Call Number
WM172 R813 2015

Copies

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Loving, supporting and caring for the cancer patient : a guide to communication, compassion and courage

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog120439
Goldberg, Stan. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield , 2016.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ201 G618 2016
Availability
5 copies, 5 available
Author
Goldberg, Stan
Place of Publication
Lanham, MD
Publisher
Rowman & Littlefield
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
xi, 199 p. ; 23 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Communication
Caregivers - psychology
Emotional Adjustment
Terminal Care
Patient Comfort
Compassion
Empathy
Helping Behavior
Interpersonal Relations
Popular Work
ISBN
9780810895867
0810895862
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Kelowna Cancer Info Ctr
Prince George Cancer Info Ctr
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ201 G618 2016

Copies

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Putting anger to work for you

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog15878
Schroeder, Ruth, Schroeder, Joel. Mission, KS: SkillPath Publications , c1995.
Audience
Professional
Call Number
BF698.9 S381 1995
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Schroeder, Ruth
Schroeder, Joel
Place of Publication
Mission, KS
Publisher
SkillPath Publications
Publication Date
c1995
Physical Description
71 p. ; 22 cm
Series
SkillPath handbook series
Subjects
Anger
Assertiveness
Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Emotions
Adaptation, Psychological
Stress, Psychological
ISBN
1878542869 (pbk.)
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Professional
Location
Vancouver Library
Call Number
BF698.9 S381 1995

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VAN Library Available
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Help me live : 20 things people with cancer want you to know

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog14702
Hope, Lori. Berkeley, CA: Celestial arts , 2005.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ201 H792 2005
Availability
5 copies, 5 available
Author
Hope, Lori
Place of Publication
Berkeley, CA
Publisher
Celestial arts
Publication Date
2005
Physical Description
xiv, 258 p. ; 21 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Caregivers - psychology
Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Popular Work
ISBN
9781587612121 (pbk.)
1587612127 (pbk.)
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Kelowna Cancer Info Ctr
Prince George Cancer Info Ctr
Vancouver Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ201 H792 2005

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Help me live : 20 things people with cancer want you to know

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog21647
Hope, Lori. Berkeley, CA: Celestial arts , 2011. rev. and expanded ed.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ201 H792 2011
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Author
Hope, Lori
Edition
rev. and expanded ed.
Place of Publication
Berkeley, CA
Publisher
Celestial arts
Publication Date
2011
Physical Description
xii, 276 p. ; 21 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Caregivers - psychology
Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Popular Work
ISBN
9781587611490 (pbk.)
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Cancer Info Ctr
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ201 H792 2011

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c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Available
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When words heal : writing through cancer

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog114054
Bray, Sharon A. Berkeley, CA: Frog, Ltd. , 2004.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ266 B827 2006
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Bray, Sharon A.
Place of Publication
Berkeley, CA
Publisher
Frog, Ltd.
Publication Date
2004
Physical Description
xvi, 141 p. ; 23 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Adaptation, Psychological
Narrative Therapy
Imagery (Psychotherapy)
Writing
Personal Narratives as Topic
Anecdotes as Topic
Poetry as Topic
Popular Work
ISBN
1583941584
9781583941584
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ266 B827 2006

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Available
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Spouse to spouse : what it's like when your partner has cancer

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog16480
Nessim, Susan. Los Angeles, CA: Susan Nessim Keeney/Cancervive , 1999.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ200 S765 1999
Availability
3 copies, 3 available
Husbands and wives of people with cancer discuss their deepest emotions, sharing their fears and hopes as both partner and caregiver. The spouses, from varied backgrounds and at different stages in their lives, speak to how the illness tests the strength and endurance of their marriage. This 17 mi…
Author
Nessim, Susan
Corporate Author
Cancervive
Place of Publication
Los Angeles, CA
Publisher
Susan Nessim Keeney/Cancervive
Publication Date
1999
Physical Description
17 minutes
Subjects
Spouses
Social Support
Neoplasms - psychology
Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Popular Work
Abstract
Husbands and wives of people with cancer discuss their deepest emotions, sharing their fears and hopes as both partner and caregiver. The spouses, from varied backgrounds and at different stages in their lives, speak to how the illness tests the strength and endurance of their marriage. This 17 minute documentary will help spouses of people with cancer articulate difficult feelings and encourage greater communication between partners.
Language
English
Material Type
Video
DVD
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ200 S765 1999

Copies

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When someone you love has cancer : a resource for young people

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog15992
Canadian Cancer Society. [Toronto, ON]: Canadian Cancer Society , 2003. rev. ed.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ201 C213w 2003
Availability
4 copies, 4 available
Corporate Author
Canadian Cancer Society
Edition
rev. ed.
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Canadian Cancer Society
Publication Date
2003
Physical Description
26 p. : ill. ; 22 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Parent-Child Relations
Adolescent
Child
Family Relations
Communication
Emotions
Social Support
Popular Work
Language
English
Material Type
Booklet
Handout
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Surrey Cancer Info Ctr
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ201 C213w 2003

Copies

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Mindful path to self-compassion : freeing yourself from destructive thoughts and emotions

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog121209
Germer, Christopher K. New York, NY: Guilford Press , 2009.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM425 G374 2009
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Germer, Christopher K
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Guilford Press
Publication Date
2009
Physical Description
xiv, 306 p. : ill ; 23 cm.
Subjects
Emotions
Meditation
Cognitive Therapy
Stress, Psychological
Behavior and Behavior Mechanisms
Empathy
Awareness
ISBN
9781593859756
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Call Number
WM425 G374 2009

Copies

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Healing through words

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124444
Kaur, Rupi. Kansas City, MO: Andrews McMeel Publishing , 2022.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM420.5.N3 K21h 2022
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
"#1 New York Times bestselling author Rupi Kaur presents guided writing exercises of her own design to inspire creativity and healing. These exercises help you explore themes of trauma, loss, heartache, love, healing, and celebration to the self." --Back cover
Author
Kaur, Rupi
Place of Publication
Kansas City, MO
Publisher
Andrews McMeel Publishing
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
xvii, 300 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm
Subjects
Writing
Adaptation, Psychological
Narrative Therapy
Self Disclosure
Popular Work
Abstract
"#1 New York Times bestselling author Rupi Kaur presents guided writing exercises of her own design to inspire creativity and healing. These exercises help you explore themes of trauma, loss, heartache, love, healing, and celebration to the self." --Back cover
Notes
This resource was purchased with a donation from the Order of the Eastern Star.
ISBN
9781524873264
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
WM420.5.N3 K21h 2022

Copies

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When cancer strikes a friend : what to say, what to do, and how to help

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog21841
Draeger, Bonnie E. New York, NY: Skyhorse Publishing , 2012.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
QZ201 D758 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Draeger, Bonnie E
Editor
Abram, Rachel
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Skyhorse Publishing
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
xi, 239 p. : ill. ; 21 cm.
Subjects
Neoplasms - psychology
Interpersonal Relations
Communication
Social Support
Friends
Breast Neoplasms - psychology
Popular Work
ISBN
9781620872147
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
QZ201 D758 2012

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Available
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Is there anything I can do? : helping a friend when times are tough

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog113438
Gordon, Sol. New York, NY: Delacorte Press , 1994.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
BF575 F66 G665 1994
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Gordon, Sol
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Delacorte Press
Publication Date
1994
Physical Description
xvi, 220 p. ; 19 cm.
Subjects
Helping Behavior
Interpersonal Relations
Friends
Social Support
Popular Work
ISBN
9780385299008
0385299001
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
BF575 F66 G665 1994

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Available
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An emotionally focused workbook for couples : the two of us

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog120505
Kallos-Lilly, Veronica, Fitzgerald, Jennifer. New York, NY: Routledge , 2015.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 K14 2015
Availability
5 copies, 5 available
Author
Kallos-Lilly, Veronica
Fitzgerald, Jennifer
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Routledge
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
190 p. ; 28 cm.
Subjects
Marital Therapy
Couples therapy
Emotion-Focused Therapy
Interpersonal Relations
Communication
Spouses
Counseling
Popular Work
Notes
Surrey CIC keep 2022 PFC (F0002453, F0002454, F0002455, F0002457)
ISBN
9780415742481
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Surrey Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 K14 2015

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency SUR Cancer Info Ctr Surrey PFC Available
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Hold me tight : seven conversations for a lifetime of love

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog120507
Johnson, Sue. New York, NY: Little Brown and Company , 2008.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 J66 2008
Availability
8 copies, 8 available
Author
Johnson, Sue
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Little Brown and Company
Publication Date
2008
Physical Description
xii, 300 p. ; 25 cm.
Subjects
Couples therapy
Marital Therapy
Interpersonal Relations
Emotion-Focused Therapy
Counseling
Communication
Love
Popular Work
Notes
Surrey CIC keep 2022 (F0002461)
Surrey CIC keep 2022 PFC (F0002463, F0002462)
ISBN
9780316113007
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Vancouver Library
Abbotsford Cancer Info Ctr
Prince George Cancer Info Ctr
Surrey Cancer Info Ctr
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 J66 2008

Copies

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c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Missing Available
c.1 BC Cancer Agency VAN Library Available
c.1 BC Cancer Agency PG Cancer Info Ctr Missing Available
c.2 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Missing Available
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Seven principles for making marriage work

https://bccalibrary.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog120735
Gottman, John M, Silver, Nan. New York, NY: Three Rivers Press , 1999.
Audience
Patient or Public
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 G686s 1999
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Author
Gottman, John M
Silver, Nan
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Three Rivers Press
Publication Date
1999
Physical Description
ix, 271 p. ; 20 cm.
Subjects
Marriage - psychology
Spouses
Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal Relations
Problem Solving
Popular Work
ISBN
9780609805794
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Audience
Patient or Public
Location
Victoria Cancer Info Ctr
Call Number
WM430.5.M3 G686s 1999

Copies

c.1 BC Cancer Agency VIC Cancer Info Ctr Available
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